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  • The start of a new year often comes with a flurry of resolutions, lofty goals, and ambitious plans. It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement and feel the pressure to aim for perfection in every area of life. But what if we approached 2025 with a little more kindness toward ourselves? Instead of

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  • Persistence and Consistency

    My thoughts about 2024 2024 is a year that holds great potential for those who are consistent and persistent in their pursuits. While every year comes with its own set of obstacles and challenges, it is important to remember that no matter how much we may have fasted or prayed, these challenges will still come.

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  • Keep the Faith

    Last week was all shades of “I don’t know”; one moment, I was like “, I gat this”, and the next moment I was like “, What am I doing” That was a summary of my last week. Anyway, Sunday, I woke up, and I told myself nothing would steal my joy or hope. I

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  • Charity MIA

    Oh yes, I was missing in actions for a few weeks. When life hits you, you take a breather from everything and try to find your rhythm. She is me, and I am her. I had to soak in strength, and for that, I had to unhinge and rehinge, if you get my drift😁 Sometimes

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  • Keep Going

    I always start my working week with a blog post, and I wondered what I would write about; last week was a tough week, but somehow I managed to keep my smile. I also had the privilege of speaking to some Nigerians that have just come to the UK with family and started attending lectures

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  • At my lowest…

    Check out my podcast, Absolutely Everything , on Spotify for Podcasters! https://anchor.fm/ijeme-ilevbare

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  • Patience… a virtue

    Those lines got me giggling because, as God knows, I am lacking in the department of patience when it comes to my own behaviour. The impatience I have is such that sometimes I reprimand myself for it, like, “Charity, please be patient, please be patient.” I do not have data to convincingly attribute it to

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  • Stop trying to calm the storm

    The past weekend I had mixed emotions, anxiety, hope, despair and a mix of all the other vibes cos it was Election Day in Nigeria. I pray for a new Nigeria, but I have doubts in my heart; I pray for change, but would it come? Will Nigerianism allow the chosen of God to rule?

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  • Take that leap

    It is easier said than done, when I was younger, I felt out of place, I asked myself so many questions and I did not get any of them answered, that made me moody. I would wonder why I am not like my sister Efe or Rachael, why can’t I make friends easily, I often

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